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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I are both Words of Affirmation. We say I Love You all the time. At least 5 times a day but sometimes 20-30. It was weird when he first started doing it, like “Why TF are you always saying I love you?!?!” But I soon got used to it and now realize how much I like it. Usually saying in the morning, bedtime, getting off phone. Then sprinkled in at other times. We regularly, suddenly realize how lucky we are or how much we love the other person and just say it. For me it’s often when we are watching a show together and really getting into it and I realize how much fun I’m having doing something simple with him. Or after reading DCUM relationship craziness 😆

We also say thank you all the time. Thank you for doing the dishes, thank you for taking out the trash, thank you for dinner, etc. It’s all stuff that are “our job” in the marriage, but we still thank each other. I sometimes will thank DH for going to work (to a job he doesn’t like) which allows us to have the life we do. It forces you to pay attention to the good things and not dwell on the bad/annoying stuff.

It’ll be weird for you when you start. You’ll have to make a concerted effort and think about it. I would start with saying I love you 1-2 times a day and Thank you 2-3 times a day. [/quote]

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