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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Make a list of what you did and what he did prebaby. Then make a list of what he currently does and you currently do post baby. Ask him to look it over and add to it- he may be doing things that you do not consider work but are. Then compare the lists. This is what I did and DH took over several tasks. Some guys need it in black and white. Also tell him that until the baby is older staying home full time with a baby means that it is a good day the caregiver can also get the dishwasher unloaded (or at least started)- this can also happen if you have toddlers and are at home. Another thing DH and I did was having an every other week house cleaner. That helped tremendously. [/quote] OP here. This is good advice. I will try to make a list for him to see exactly what I do all day. He works from home and knows I do a lot during the day, even when when holding baby in the carrier for naps. [/quote]
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