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[quote=Anonymous]...and I will never speak to her again. I have had it with her. Quick summary of the latest, in a long tiresome line of incidents,  to get this off my chest. Not really looking for much.
-she texts me COMPLETELY out of the blue without provocation  and says. "Covid is getting dangerous I won't be able to see the kids for some time " I'm like ok and she then offers a sleep over which I decline, in lieu  I suggest a day trip. Preferably outdoors if we have a nice day. She says fine give me dates. This is now getting strange since this started off her being  scared of covid and immediately seguewayes into a sleepover of all things. I tell her  I will get back to her with dates.

Meantime my alcoholic brother who shares custody with my ex SIL tells my SIL he is going away with my mom this weekend (which was this past weekend) . He then brazenly posts pictures of himself ALL OVER MANHATTAN and is quite smug about his public display of defiance. I know for a fact my brother lied to my SIL and my mother did not go with him.

I text my mom and say "hey brother sys you went with him to Manhattan, I know you'd never do that in a pandemic, but since our brother spends his visits with my nephew in your home for the weekend we'll have to skip you seeing the kids as I don't want to introduce that risk into my home, stay safe, let's loop back after the holidays.

SHE THEN GOES OFF. She says "I wanted to go to Manhattan with him and was going to,  but I had an important drs appt I couldn't skip and proceeds to carry on and on and on about how many safety precautions he took and that I have no right to pass judgment and that it's safe to visit Manhattan.

I basically then went off and told her her moral compass is broken and how dare she try to gaslight me during a pandemic about keeping my family safe.

This all starts with her telling me that she couldn't see my kids (mind you I made zero plans with her to do so) because of covid safety.

Maybe this incident seems like is should be forgiven, but this is a loooooooog string of absolutely off the rocker insane nasty behavior and attacks out of my mother. She treated my exSIL like dogs crap, she has not spoken to my sister since June after she made up up crazy lies about her and then double downed when confronted. These lies were about my sister and the state of Vermont. Yes Vermont. Lies about Vermont and my sister. What the actual fu%k??? There is some.backstory there, but too tiresome to explain that side show.

I'd say she has dementia, but she's been like this for years. She is so damn nasty. Now I'm just going to have to break it to the kids that I won't be facilitating any visits with her. They are not huge fans of  her anyway so I suppose it might be a non issue. THANK YOU GOD I have wonderful inlaws and a great sister and a great ex SIL who I consider a sister. The ties with my mother are officially severed and I will never repair them. She is too toxic.  She brings me nothing, but misery. [/quote]

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