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Reply to "I grieved end of marriage, now he wants to work on it"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Did you cheat or did he? Is that how it got so bad?[/quote] Neither, at least I know I did not and I am pretty certain he did not. From my perspective it got so bad because I spent most our marriage keeping a career of my own while doing all the household and parenting duties, asked for more help and more engagement from him and over time for therapy since nothing was changing, then we stopped spending time together at home, then in Feb he basically said he doesn't see an issue with 1) the division of duties, and 2) how little time we were spending together, and that 3) he has no intention of changing those things. After years of expressing these needs and asking for help and quality time and a partnership, I felt like there was no more I could do and I stopped. After some months of my giving up and interacting very minimally, he saw the proverbial light or what have you.[/quote]
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