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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For several reasons.  First and foremost, there is almost never a situation where infidelity was only one persons fault.  It usually happens after both people have failed.  Second, I don't paint all pictures with the same brush.  The circumstances around the infidelity was in the past and most people learn from the past.  
Personally, it sounds like your bitter and can't get over something that may have been partially your fault as well.  [/quote]

Most people do not learn from the past, especially when they don’t get help or honestly confront instead of make excuses or blame others.

People tend to make the same mistakes over and over again.[/quote]

Yeah.  Cheaters always end up cheating in their 2nd marriages (on the person they cheated with the first time around).  It’s why second marriages have a 65-70% divorce rate.  If they did the heavy therapeutic work, change is possible.  Most don’t.  Most blame their behavior on everyone else and do mental gymnastics to justify it.  It’s always somebody else’s fault.[/quote]

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