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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]and instead I fell in love with a crazy person who appears to have put his best foot forward and tricked me into believing he was something he was not. Or rather, I did not see the love bombing and the red flags and foolishly fell for a mirage. Now that the true person appears I am devastated, heart broken, lost and confused.  Part of why I am scared to leave is...at least he is familiar. I know all his flaws. What else can he possibly do to surprise me? Maybe I can make peace and say "life isn't perfect."

But then I wonder if it is worth pursuing? Maybe even now in my old 30thingsome bones and tired soul, I have something to offer to someone that will love me. Someone who is better than me and who makes me a better person. What if I do not find that kind of love as its just a fantasy?
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I could have written your post a few years ago. Take a leap of faith on truly truly truly loving yourself and being alone. You won’t be attracted to flaws that no longer hold a power over you, probably from some suppressed experience and attempt of your brain to resolve matters of the heart. Yes, leave. The devil you know is bad, it is a trick to think it is a better choice to settle for disrespect and abuse. You cannot produce good fruit from a rotting tree. Cut it down. Sit on the stump and cry a bit. Then get up, and keep walking. Plant new seeds along the way for eventual blooms. You’ll find once you reach a certain clearing, rhe people on the other side are better, because you are a better person and universally attracting what compliments you.

You cannot control anything in this world other than how you respond to what it presents before you.[/quote]

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