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[quote=Anonymous]DH frequently (like more than once or twice a day) makes comments about attractive women he sees out and about.  For example, earlier today he called to thank me for telling him to walk through Union Station on his way to work because of all the hot women he sees walking through there.  Then today at lunch I asked how his day was going and he said "oh pretty good.  There was a woman visiting with ridiculous proportions wearing practically nothing." Ok great.  These are pretty typical comments.  What am I supposed to do with these?  I think in the past I've just let them roll - I 100% recognize that people continue to be attractive when you're married and I have no problem with that (I'd be a hypocrite if I did since I know I look).  But lately they're really bothering me.  I've even asked him to tone it down and he just tells me he's just talking, they don't mean anything.  Maybe combined with my second problem it's becoming more of an issue...

The other thing is that I think he thinks I'm fat.  Which I am NOT.  Like almost the opposite.  I've always been thin, but this summer because of stress I've lost another 10 pounds and literally three or more people a day tell me they are worried about me because I look so thin.  But just now he was looking at me disappointed because I had eaten a bag of M&Ms this morning.  And I told him I wanted to gain some weight because my pants are all hanging off of me and it's driving me crazy fending off all these comments and he's like, "no just go buy some new pants - don't gain weight."

So I'm basically hearing - "you're not attractive, but man, look at all these other hot chicks." on a daily basis.  Am I making too big a deal of this?  [/quote]

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