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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I was in a similar position 5 years ago and I had two kids. I was in love and he was amazing with my two kids so I agreed to have another child even though I “was done”. Well, two years later we had twins and now I can’t imagine life without them even though it’s been pretty exhausting given I’m 38. A great guy is hard to find when you are a single mom. [/quote]

Thanks for this. Any tips for successfully blending families? Or how to know if they’d be good to your existing kids? I’m really nervous about that.[/quote]

What is wrong with you?

You just met this guy, how much do you really know about him to determine he's a good enough , that you should have around your child or be blending families at all It should be a big concern to you that he puts a heavy emphasis on  wife and kids. There's a lot of very bad men who claim to want kids, and who date single moms. Don't put the cart before the horse and do your due diligence for your safety and the safety of your child.[/quote]

You have a lot of assumptions here. I was just curious how others who have successfully navigated blended families have done so. I didn't say I want to HAVE one with this guy. I don't even know him![/quote]

Blending families shouldn't be on your radar right now with him or any other guy. Grow the hell up![/quote]

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