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[quote=Anonymous]+1 to all above. It helps if the person has responsibility for anything other than him too. Maybe they volunteered, or had a long term relationship where they became accustomed to the necessary compromise all close relationships face at some point, or if his only his priority and self. In the latter, a person may have a difficult adjustment to the responsibilities in a relation both mental, emotional and physical, so when they start to invest more, they may not know how to also keep up with basic responsibilities. This isn’t a gender issue so much as a personal trait and circumstantial context. The persons age, living expertise and independence, success in demonstrated balancing acts, and also demonstrated selflessness in some kind of way while also investing emotionally. That is a huge steep people for a lot to climb. Doesn’t mean they can’t get there, but it can definitely take the journey off course and make it more complicated than it needs to be. The dynamics will vary on what that looks like because it could be something where differences are complicated and similar in consequence to each partner. In additional to good examples above I think it helps to take it in this or a similar context when looking at criteria that should give pause to commitment until addressed and not a threat to a good marriage.[/quote]
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