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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Mine does this, too, and it drives me bonkers. It's this veiled way of criticizing. I just say, "Why do you ask?" to all of them. Then he either has to back off, or he has to make the criticism overtly. [/quote] How is that veiled? How the eff do you guys live with partners who are trying to make you feel like shit, fully intentionally?[/quote] Because, honestly, that's not his conscious intention. If you asked him, he'd say he was trying to be helpful, and that's what he genuinely thinks. He's condescending, not negging. He's "just asking a question," so if I bring it out in the open directly, I turn into the one picking the fight, and I just can't deal with that all the time. It's just easier to deflect it this way, because I don't have the energy for arguments. [/quote]
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