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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]More men are willing to live in filth than women. [/b] They cannot be changed.  If you marry one the only solution is to try to negotiate the best deal you can on an individual basis.  The most practical solution for women who work full-time seems to be relaxing certain standards.  The toxic anger that builds up and permeates a home in which a partner seethes about undone chores is as bad as the contempt a sex-deprived partner can come to feel for the sex-denying partner.  Children pick up on all of that and it is bad for them.  Let DH go or let the anger go.  [/quote]

Is this what's going on, OP?  I suppose my answer is different if:

1)  You have different standards, and he doesn't think the bathroom needs cleaned or the floors need vacuumed as often as you do.

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2)  He thinks it's your job to clean the bathroom and the floors and is kind of pissed that you aren't doing it enough.

Basically, which one of you is seething about the undone chores?    [/quote]

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