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[quote=Anonymous]My husband and I both work full time, from home right now due to covid. We are fortunate to have childcare, and pre covid we had cleaning help to minimize the friction between us in dividing household chores. It mostly worked. Now due to covid, we don’t have our cleaning person come. My husband is simply unwilling to help deep clean the bathrooms or help out around the kitchen. He says he does other things- like “cleaning humidifiers, vacuuming, ordering water,” but I am at my wits end and need help with all of the high priority chores that are not getting done- both logistically and on principle. How have other people felt with similar situations? Im not arguing that we both don’t already do a lot, but chiefly that there is simply a lot more to be done now that we didn’t have to do before, and I shouldn’t have to do it all myself. [/quote]
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