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[quote=Anonymous]A crush is just a fantasy, OP. You are using it to get away from reality. It can be fun, but when it becomes an obsession that interferes with your life, you need to deal with the cause of it. Are you and your DH not communicating well? Are you mad at your DH for not doing enough at home? Are you getting enough sleep? Enough sex? Something's not right, OP, and this fantasy is helping you get away from whatever is not working well in your life and your relationship with your DH.

It's like having a crush on a movie star. This person you have a crush on is real, and you interact with him. But you could choose to distance yourself, and you don't. You like the sensations you get from flirting with him, from being with him, even though you don't want to act on your fantasies. You recognize it's a fantasy, but it seems to be moving a little too close to obsession, OP, and you are recognizing that.

How about telling your DH about it? How would that feel? Might start a discussion neither of you want to have.

Good luck, OP. Stay away from this object of your affection, and pull your head back to reality. [/quote]

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