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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm there now.  The guy isn't worth my time and I know that.  I steel myself before I see him, tell myself he's nothing special, then he teases or flirts or gives me one of those looks and it's all over again.  I am thinking about him almost every minute until I see him again.  I think of excuses to start conversations.  What's worse, even though I don't flirt back I think he's on to me.  He will act businesslike and "normal" for a few weeks then gets flirtatious and personal for a week or so.  He's never made a move or done anything that he could be called out on, though we've been alone any number of times.  I have a sick feeling I'm being played for his ego but can't help going a long with it.

Time away does not help.  It gives me more false hope.  I am hoping that eventually my logical side will convince the emotional side to stop playing the game.  I have no good advice for you but you're not alone, and I am happy to "listen" without judging as others here surely will.[/quote]

Focus on this hot-cold element to help you get over this. You think you're being played. Your description of his hot-cold reactions make me think maybe you are, too. I think you need to trust that "sick feeling" and do what you need to do to distance yourself from this man.[/quote]

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