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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No unless it's health related.[/quote]

Why would this make a difference?[/quote]
Are you that stupid?[/quote]

DP.  I'll bite.  My DH began developing ED when he was in his mid-40s. By the time he was 50, he could no longer get an erection.  It took DH a while to see a urologist but he did and made significant efforts to address it - to no avail.  So, for the last 5 years, we've had no PIV.  I'm willing to accept that because our lack of PIV was not a unilateral decision, we are affectionate with each other and we engage in other sex-related activities - not with the frequency we used to and usually at my instigation.  But, DH is always responsive and an active participant.

Do I miss PIV?  Sure, I do.  We used to have incredible, frequent sex - best I ever had!  If I were in my 20s/30s, no sex would be a dealbreaker for me no matter the reason.  But, that's not where I'm at.  DH is a great, considerate partner and if he could change the situation, he would.  THAT is why a sexless marriage because of health reasons is different than a sexless marriage because one person, unilaterally, decided not to make an effort to meet the needs of his/her partner.  It's a level of disregard that breaks a relationship. My DH has high regard for me and our relationship. [/quote]

Please get him to a cardiologists.  Vascular issues affect the WHOLE system so the small arteries and veins throughout the body (heart, brain, lungs etc) need to be checked.  [/quote]

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