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[quote=Anonymous]Document document document.  Things like exactly when the truma occurred, the doctors visits, medical advice, etc.  Document when and where he sees the kids or provides parenting to the kids vs when you are providing parenting (all the medical appointments, all the therapy spots etc).

Document what you can now - just in case it all goes south and you lose access to any information.

Consult a lawyer.

Demonstrable evidence would be you texting him hey join us for this, or note Jeremy has an appointment at this time, the school guidance counselor has set an appointment for X time will you attend, etc.  As long as you are regularly feeding him information, his response is his response - if it came to that, you'd have. record that you were including him, and then a record he was not responding.

Essentially - you be clear an open every step of the way (but in the background document everything, photocopy all records you can get your hands on).

Act as if this is a normal relationship and you are two committed partners in co-parenting.  If he is unable to co-parent, that will become apparent and will be helpful if the relationship deteriorates.  [/quote]

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