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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For one week, tally up the amount of time you both spend on kid/house stuff (don't tell him you're doing this, or he'll step it up temporarily and then slide back). Be honest. If it's off-balance, tell him that you'll be cutting back on your work hours in proportion to how much extra work you do, unless he increases his load until it's equal and sustains it. Track everything so it's fair. If he doesn't step it up after a couple weeks, cut back on your work hours. Don't ask permission. Don't let him know before you do it - you already told him what needed to happen and he failed. Stop doing things like his laundry. Today. Anything he did for himself before you/kids he needs to continue doing for himself. [/quote] Or just go to your mom's for two weeks. [/quote]
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