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[quote=Anonymous]I'm a 35 year old foreign female. I have a small business, I'm independent financially, I have two small properties of my own, three cars and a lot of headache in my personal life, all I have was done by myself from scratch. 
 I do have a man (locall 15 years older)who is a father of my son. I'm trying to part with my partner due to many differences and problems we've had since having a child. ( He never contributed to my business or the purchase of my properties, pays bills sometime, doesn't pay for child care, doesn't spend weekends with us, doesn't take him for walks) 
My man refuses to leave. I asked him nicely without implying anything- just straight talk. Most of the time he would just ignore me or switch the conversation to something random just not to answer any questions..
So I decided to buy a new place and move out from him with the child. Now he's trying to pay attention to me, child and be more supportive. He always does this- as soon as he feels threatened, he starts bringing money, paying attention to the child and me. Once I relax and stop getting at his case, everything goes back to steady but not so great.
He has anger issues and I'm afraid of him sometime, though he never physically abused me. .
His previous GF with the toddler daughter ran to Missouri and doesn't allow him to see her for 8 years now. I'm not looking to run and I don't want to just cut him off my son's life, Im just done living together and facing someone who is complete disinterested in both me and my daughter.
How do I part with him? How to not feel guilty for "breaking a family" as he says meanwhile he is stuck in his own world and I'm done fishininghim out of his problems. He's handsome, healthy and strong. Though since he doesn't contribute financially and personally none of that matters.
Please don't call me a troll and don't throw rotting tomatoes at me. [/quote]

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