Anonymous
Post 10/08/2020 07:52     Subject: Re:What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are you married? Anyways, file for custody of your child, and evict him from your properties. He sounds totally useless.


This is not easy to do. She had a kid with him which was very stupid. F f’diesbt sound like they are married, so you won’t have to pay alimony.


???


Doesn’t. I hate my phone.
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2020 07:31     Subject: What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

If you aren't married why would he contribute to your businesses and properties? They are yours, and he has no stake in them at all.
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2020 07:12     Subject: Re:What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Are you married? Anyways, file for custody of your child, and evict him from your properties. He sounds totally useless.


This is not easy to do. She had a kid with him which was very stupid. F f’diesbt sound like they are married, so you won’t have to pay alimony.


???
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2020 07:00     Subject: Re:What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

Anonymous wrote:Are you married? Anyways, file for custody of your child, and evict him from your properties. He sounds totally useless.


This is not easy to do. She had a kid with him which was very stupid. F f’diesbt sound like they are married, so you won’t have to pay alimony.
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2020 06:57     Subject: Re:What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wth do you have 3 cars?[/quote OP here.] for business. And he likes taking them to run errands, get a speeding or red light tickets and never say a word till if doubles.


you read your mail? you seem like a materialistic and superficial person - maybe work on that so you don't attract a loser next time.
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2020 04:34     Subject: What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

You need to consult a lawyer and divorce. Sorry.

This isn't a marriage that can be saved unless you're omitting something important
Anonymous
Post 10/08/2020 04:24     Subject: Re:What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

Are you married? Anyways, file for custody of your child, and evict him from your properties. He sounds totally useless.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 23:59     Subject: What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

Divorce.

Your kid has a “sperm guy”, not a father.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 23:38     Subject: Re:What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

Anonymous wrote:Wth do you have 3 cars?[/quote OP here.] for business. And he likes taking them to run errands, get a speeding or red light tickets and never say a word till if doubles.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 23:35     Subject: Re:What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

Wth do you have 3 cars?
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 23:31     Subject: What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

OP here, just reread and realized I said me and my daughter. I have a son. That was a typo. I'm super sleepy.
Anonymous
Post 10/07/2020 23:28     Subject: What's next? (Or what's wrong with me)

I'm a 35 year old foreign female. I have a small business, I'm independent financially, I have two small properties of my own, three cars and a lot of headache in my personal life, all I have was done by myself from scratch.
I do have a man (locall 15 years older)who is a father of my son. I'm trying to part with my partner due to many differences and problems we've had since having a child. ( He never contributed to my business or the purchase of my properties, pays bills sometime, doesn't pay for child care, doesn't spend weekends with us, doesn't take him for walks)
My man refuses to leave. I asked him nicely without implying anything- just straight talk. Most of the time he would just ignore me or switch the conversation to something random just not to answer any questions..
So I decided to buy a new place and move out from him with the child. Now he's trying to pay attention to me, child and be more supportive. He always does this- as soon as he feels threatened, he starts bringing money, paying attention to the child and me. Once I relax and stop getting at his case, everything goes back to steady but not so great.
He has anger issues and I'm afraid of him sometime, though he never physically abused me. .
His previous GF with the toddler daughter ran to Missouri and doesn't allow him to see her for 8 years now. I'm not looking to run and I don't want to just cut him off my son's life, Im just done living together and facing someone who is complete disinterested in both me and my daughter.
How do I part with him? How to not feel guilty for "breaking a family" as he says meanwhile he is stuck in his own world and I'm done fishininghim out of his problems. He's handsome, healthy and strong. Though since he doesn't contribute financially and personally none of that matters.
Please don't call me a troll and don't throw rotting tomatoes at me.