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Reply to "What are the most important and helpful things you did early in your divorce?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Spouse and I are formally starting the divorce process and should be able to reach settlement in mediation. I will remain in our home with the children and spouse will move into a new place nearby. Legal and financial issues aside (those are in process), what are the most important things you did that first year? Self-care, reflection, new hobby, things with the kids, throwing yourself into work, anything you can think of -- anything at all that isn't related to lawyers. I have that awful feeling of having nothing to look forward to. Just rudderless, dreading the winter and the possibility of another strict lockdown while solo parenting more than half the time, dreading the holidays, and simultaneously dreading and looking forward to every other weekend alone. I think I'll go from busy to bored very quickly. I don't even know what I'm looking for. I just feel like garbage.[/quote]
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