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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why not reimagine living arrangements? Why not consider if intimacy COULD be back on the table, but you both live in separate houses? I'd say keep an open mind here. You can love and be in love but not like to actually LIVE with somebody.[/quote]

OP here, I have thought about that at length.  Can the separate living arraignments also mean an open marriage or perhaps neither of us ask what the other is doing?  We don't have sex anyway.  Is this a fantasy?  Or do you think she would actually want to have a sex life again if we created space between us?

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I don't know, OP, but you should definitely broach those subjects with her ... I think it may save your marriage and so when you get older (and want/need less sex) you may want more togetherness (because I can see the benefits of being with a known entity who legitimately cares about me as I age). [/quote]

Also, and I say this as a woman, she might embrace that situation. I'd love to stay married but get to have boyfriends. OMG I would LOVE it. And my own house???? And know that in 20 years I'll have somebody that I love to settle back with?? Love love love the idea of it. Sounds amazing.[/quote]

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