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[quote=Anonymous]Your mother didn't just fail you. Your community failed you by not believing you, and I think your hurt from that is displaced and pointed towards your mother. My friend's husband is a doctor. And when his kids scrape their knee or bang their elbow, he's dismissive of their crying. They don't want him to perform surgery like he does for his patients - they wanted him to empathize and comfort them and dry tears. It sounds like your mom was like "I can't have sympathy for my daughter being sad that a girl at school made fun of her shirt when I just did therapy on a girl whose mother burned her face". Also, your mom may have used up all her empathy on her patients and not saved any for you.[/quote]
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