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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Alcoholism is a disease.  This should be explained to your children.

Your children have made it clear they want to continue to have a relationship with their father, no matter what his issues are. It sounds like they are glad for any time they can get with him even if it's for short periods of time.

[b]I am quite certain your kids can feel your disrespect and death-wish about their father.  That is probably impacting how they view their visits. You are putting them in a bad position where their binds to their father are being sawed at by your negative feelings towards him.
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You also call him a narcissist. Was this a professional diagnosis from a health care provider or is it your opinion?

[b]If you want to alienate your kids from their father I'd say you are being successful. 
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The most important thing a divorced parent can do is foster the best relationship possible with the other parent.  
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You have a lot of nerve. I'm pissed on the OP's behalf just reading this crap. You think she needs a professional diagnosis from a health care provider to call him a narcissist, yet you think you can spew this crap??? Unreal. You suck, PP. OP is clearly trying to do the best thing for her kids. You really, really suck....[/quote]

Wow. Something hit a nerve![/quote]

Yeah, the kids' father is drunk when she drops them off with him, doesn't bother having them for overnights and cancels list minute. OP is STILL trying to find a way for them to see him without being hurt by this behavior, and yet she is being blamed for their relationship. Yes, that hits a nerve. OP's ex is responsible for the effect he's having on his kids. They are hurting. Too bad that only bothers the OP, not their father.[/quote]

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