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[quote=Anonymous]So I have a quick question
I moved I to my bfs house a few weeks ago, and we both were very excited
Before I moved in, even months ago, I repeatedly asked him if he still was going to help me 
with something very important (legal issue).
The issue was VERY important to me, and he said yes he will help me upon moving in.
So turns out that when I moved in and pushed him to finally go and help me, he kind of ignored me a 
whole day, then said that his mom wanted to help me to and we can talk later that evening.
I was happy. Well, until I spoke to his mom.
She indirectly explained to me what I should do instead so I can take care of the issue myself.
I was in shock, I couldn’t sleep all night.
Mind you, we have been dating for years, I did a lot of very nice things for him before I moved into his house,
I helped him financially to buy appliances, helped took care of his brother (handicapped) and a few other things.
It’s been weeks and I’m very upset still, talked to him, but he gives me a bunch of excuses saying how we were so busy
and all this is just a misunderstanding. 
Well mind you, I got into panick mode and tried to find anybody who could help me instead of him, again, it was a very
Important issue that needed immediate attention.
So I started packing my stuff, I just can’t get over it, I’m still confused as to WHY he didn’t help...
Is it bc he was really busy? He doesn’t was unemployed at that time bc of covid, 
Is it bc he never wanted to help me? Is it bc he just used it as a bait to get me into his house?
I’m very sad but also very mad about this. But I don’t want to be a doormat that does all these nice tings for him, 
he basically lets me down, and then when I confront him, then he realizes that he wants to help me now?!?!??
I showed zero effort, didn’t even try to help!!! And on top of that he sends me to his mom who indirectly tells me to do 
it myself. And I have no family here!!!! 
What would you guys do in this situation? Move out, second chance, let it slide?
Thank you!!!![/quote]

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