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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When DH and I fight we can get stuck in a place where he goes over and over what happened MINUTES earlier. Like, “first you came downstairs and I thought xyz, then YOU said blah blah” and suddenly we are fighting not about the original topic but about the situation itself, who said what when, etc. DH also has ADD. We really benefited from couples therapy to learn better ways to fight. But even now I need to do everything possible not to engage with that line of thinking, as it’s a distraction from the issue at hand.[/quote] Yes! It drives me crazy. I don’t know how to explain it to our therapist. And something minuscule could happen that would just pass on its own, but instead it turns into a “thing” because of all his commenting about it. It’s truly exhausting to me but hard to describe. [/quote]
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