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[quote=Anonymous]"What happened between us?" If my partner had a solid, thought, realistic perspective on how and why things went wrong between us, AND took an appropriate amount of responsibility for their role (and that means NEITHER blowing it off, nor being a martyr/over-reacting in that passive aggressive way) , and started coming up with ways we could correct the problems with a realistic plan for moving forward in a way that ensures it wouldn't happen again -- sure. Maybe. Depends on if things went so far that I'd burned out all my caring receptors by struggling too long to fix things without any buy-in from my partner. That's what happened for me -- it was all "I can't change, the problem is with you" until I made the call to divorce, and then it was all "don't leave! I can change!" At that point, for that relationship, nothing he might say would have been enough, because it just was no longer on the table. But up to that point, for me? Sure. [/quote]
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