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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm the SIL who is kind of private.  My brother and SIL and their children have never been to my apartment.  It's TINY and rundown and I have leftover furniture from older (bigger) apartments so it's even MORE awkwardly laid out than it otherwise would be.  It's always dusty. I use a cardboard box as a side table, for example.

I am VERY careful about what I share because I HAVE been judged so much. I am the least successful member of the family on all sides (in all ways). But I'm interested in everyone else.[/quote]

You seem very insecure from what you posted. Own your life and your choices. It is nothing to be proud of if your immediately family hasn’t seen where you live (and in particular if it is deliberate.)[/quote]

They're not my choices, they are my options.  If I'd been smart enough to get a 4 yr degree I would have. but it took me 5 years to get a 2 yr degree and nearly killed me to get that. I do what I can. It just sucks that everyone else can do more.[/quote]

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