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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have six kids, and could not live the way you are living.  EVERYTHING. HAS. A. PLACE!  And everyone knows where that place is.  Our house is super organized.  Sure, sometimes crap is left all over, but if I gathered the family and said "Important company is coming in 15 minutes," we could have everything neat and organized.

You need to tell them that they have until July 1st to clean up/throw out their stuff. Starting July 1, if something is left out in your way, you are THROWING IT OUT.  Everyone must clean up after themselves.

(But the key to them being able to do that is knowing where things should go. Put little stickers on shelves in closets saying what goes where if you need to.)[/quote]

OP here.  well this was my plan on how to run this home, but I'm thinking that because my husband doesn't care  the others have learned to be this way as well.  And his reactions over the years when I've mentioned anything have shown them how "ridiculous" I am I guess.  He has gotten angry and spent entire weekends in the garage "cleaning up" but his method does't really solve anything for the long term.No organizational system.  Maybe just a path is created and a few things thrown out.  But the next time someone wants or needs a tool/supplies or anything else, the boxes have to be pulled out, the item found, then the boxes are just left out.  It makes not sense in my logical mind to live like this, and I have no recourse left that I can think of.  They don't even seem to understand the concept I'm trying to get through to them to make a place that MAKES SENSE, then put it back there when you are done.

It's stressful for all of us, because every month or so it reaches a tipping point and hours have to be spent "cleaning up" again.

A good example is that we opened our pool and the box with the parts in it was buried, 5 boxes were taken out to get to that one box, then all 6 boxes were left out all over the garage because we needed one damn part to attach a ladder.

It would be funny if it wasn't so sickening to live with.

How do you get everyone to cooperate?  I would be more than willing to put in the work myself to get it initially organized, but not if it's just going to be ignored and be back where it was a week ago anyway.
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