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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What state are you in? He can't negotiate child support, that is dictated by state law. He can negotiate alimony, but custody is usually 50/50 so that's not really a leverage point. Plus alimony only exists if you are a SAHM and until you get a job, so very short term. Honestly your family situation doesn't sound great and it sounds like you didn't care how he felt about it, so it sounds like divorce is for the best.[/quote] With equal income there is no alimony or child support but what needs to be worked out is who pays for what? Camps, day care, after school/before school care, activities and clothing.[/quote]
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