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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The fact that you both see people connected to the other parent as unsafe actually helps. In your situation, I think you could just agree that you both need to be comfortable with a caregiver. I think it's more difficult when one parent is untrusting of all caregivers and the other parent is very comfortable. [/quote] +1 No vote wins. That said, don't just reflexively say no. Think about what you're actually worried about and don't make it a line in the sand. My ILs are not as mobile as my mom and I don't necessarily think they have the energy to keep up with DD right now. But when she's older and better at following directions I think she can spend the night at their house, go with them to watch movies, etc. They're not careless or irresponsible, they're just not in the best health. A no now isn't a no forever, y'know?[/quote]
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