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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For me a big weight gain shows a lack of self respect. That is really what is unappealing. [/quote] For many it's rooted in depression and other emotional issues that go well beyond self respect. I gained and eventually lost ~100 lbs and having participated in a couple of support groups over five years I can tell you that its rarely so simple. Most KNOW how to diet and exercise but eat poorly because of severe depression, anxiety and other marital and family issues. I found help with medications to address the depression and anxiety - and two years later I had lost the weight. My wife was very supportive during this dark chapter of my life - but we still had an active sex life. I know she lost attraction for me - which only compounded the depression - but we worked through it together. [/quote]
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