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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It sounds like your kids are getting ALL the attention, frankly. Say no to some activities. Spend quality time with your husband, or build down time into your routine, instead of treating him like a servant who just needs to do chores and sh*t with the kids. You’ve made a life that revolves completely around your kids to the utter neglect of your marriage and anyone having down time. Do your kids even know how to entertain themselves or have any “bored” time where they learn to entertain themselves? Really, hiding behind the couch crying because they’re not getting attention? The problem here is not the husband. [/quote] Agreed. I can't imagine not allowing myself or DH any downtime. That would make for some VERY cranky and exhausted parents. Your kids are 6,4,and 11 months. You don't need to be so busy with activities. Take some downtime. Build in relaxation time for BOTH of you. I get that you want DH to be more involved, but frankly your life sounds exhausting and I can't blame him for checking out a bit. It also sounds like you have some anxiety, have you ever been diagnosed? [/quote]
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