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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm a therapist. I have never heard, nor used the term "help-rejecting complainer" although I am familiar with this type. I completely disagree with the advice. I think you set a boundary of "I've heard you, I've tried to help you, at this point I would like to have this relationship be about my needs and interests as well as yours and I don't want to discuss this ad nauseum whenever we are together." This may have the person remove themself from your life, at least for a period of time, but the strategy that the article discusses will not work. [/quote] +1 to all of the above. [/quote]
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