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[quote=Anonymous]A vent in reaction to an insta post where a mom of 3 is implying her recent miscarriage is as painful as others regardless of her already having 3 kids. I lost my first pregnancy and have lost another after a live birth - they are not the same! Yes I can be sad for both children that “could have been” but the first defined whether or not I’d be a mother / have the experience of raising a child. I didn’t just lose a potential child, I lost a major life experience I really wanted. If you already have a child and have a loss, yes of course that still hurts. But you’re still a mom! You still get the experience of raising children! It is painful but doesn’t fundamentally change the trajectory of your life! Ok vent over. I know it’s not a competition for who hurts more, but this one gets me really worked up [/quote]
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