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[quote=Anonymous]Sounds like you’re the husband.  I have two female friends that divorced their husbands, one because he was addicted to video games and not present with the family (he wasn’t a dork, actually a very attractive professional) and the other because he wouldn’t do things with her and the kids-she thought if she threatened divorce and moved out he’d see the error of his ways and change and he didn’t.  The second scenario he was just lazy and didn’t feel like making any effort.  Both woman have confided that if their husbands had given just a little they would still be married.

In the case of the first guy, he got a FWB pregnant and they are now married.  No video games for him, ever, because the new wife is very controlling.  The second guy was single for many years and only recently met someone decent.

In your case I’d strongly recommend individual therapy for you, so you can work on some of the issues your spouse has problems with.  This will benefit you in two ways- it’ll show your spouse you’re willing to face these issues head and and, if it ends up not working out, it’ll help you be a better you in the future.  In your case, if there truly is no infidelity (which is always a possibility) I’d think it would be possible to save your marriage but it’s going to take work and effort on your part.[/quote]

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