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[quote=Anonymous]I meet online this Indian IT guy and suggested to meet at a coffee place.
On the day of a “date” I told him I will be waiting at the lobby. 10 minutes into the “date” I texted him I will be leaving shortly in case if he is running late as I have other things scheduled on that day. He texts he is walking around isles in the adjacent store. ???? We finally meet and spend about 25 minutes remaining talking about IT stuff. He came with his “Starbucks” cup I didn’t order since time was scarce (for dates I book 45 min to maintain my schedule.)
He texts me right after the date “you are busy woman”, I suppose it was instead of “nice meeting you, etc.”.
He seems to like to text a lot which I am reluctant to entertain within given “environment”. He asked to meet again sometime soon. He is available on mid week and weekend and overall flexible schedule/telecommute. I suggested I have availability to go for a dog walk with me (set schedule every evening or meet later for dinner at the inexpensive Asian place. He agreed on a walk (windy, cold weather). It didn’t work out since my neighbor asked to join with her dog to discuss her things and I had to re-schedule the “date” for next day. Again offered walk with me or diner. He agreed on walk with me. Later I checked the snow/rain forecast and suggested we go to a restaurant/café. He felt reluctant on eating out idea: “Ohh, ok”.
What was it? Lack of dating experience? Lack of organization? Lack of finance to get your date coffee or take to a cheap café? Is it cultural? How to go about it? 
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