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[quote=Anonymous]This happened to my biracial (black/white) daughter OP. It started at the same age. She started saying  she hated being brown and having curly hair. Transpired Her classmates were telling  her she was covered in mud and looked like a warthog (they were studying them at school) because of her curry hair and brown skin. During black history month someone asked her if her grandparents had chains around their necks. She became so despondent that, in her own 5 year old way , she said “I don’t want to be alive because I don’t know how to be happy being brown”. She called all black people ugly.
It’s a very long and extremely painful story but we eventually, after a year of talking to the school, decided to move her to a private school where she was not the only brown person and it’s made the world or difference. 
In these situations it’s very hard to bring about change because most of the comments made are by children who are just not used to people different from them and are curious. No one has explained these differences. If there is no one else like them they bear  the brunt of these comments and it can be very damaging. I was advised by the  school social worker, off the record, to remove her from the school because where these situations had arisen before they often got worse not better. 
I hope you have a better experience than we did and are able to resolve the situation within the current school. [/quote]

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