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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stopped making negative comments. It's something that had bothered DH since dating -- i was not pessimistic, but grew up in a family where we nonstop criticized others. Have made a concerted effort to stop doing it. DH notices and i think it makes me feel better plus makes him happier and less annoyed with me. I really notice how much my parents do it now, and it drives me crazy. [/quote] Same. My DH is similar actually, and we got into a pattern of sniping at each other and then blaming the other for “starting it”. I finally realized that change starts with me and made a huge effort to STOP doing it, and bite my tongue, bite my tongue, bite my tongue! Sure enough- when I started making an effort DH did too. I just had to buck up and start it off. [/quote] This is what I came on to say. Not be negative and controlling. Not always have to have things my way. [/quote]
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