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[quote=Anonymous]Whoa. I cannot imagine. But I want to help.

42 year old gay man. Been out since I was 20 (I was never really closeted; it just never dawned on me before that that I could be gay).

First move to a very gay neighborhood (if you are in dc I definitely mean 14th street/ u street). Highly Consider a roommate situation.  I think this is so important. If you own a home rent it and move. If you have a recently signed lease and financial means find out why it would cost to terminate it early.

I’ve been married for nearly 20 years so I don’t know much about Grindr but I would go to some gay bars (go for happy hour if not late night). Do some Community events or volunteering. Check out the dc center. Pick up a copy of the blade or check it out online. Go to events (you can leave after 30 minutes if you hate them). You will Hate some of them. There are zillion gay people here and hundreds of communities. You will find one that fits.

Consider a therapist if you can afford it. Michael radkowski would be good. 
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