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[quote=Anonymous]I think a little humility is in order.  As parents, we do all we can to raise honorable people who are decent and kind and will be a force for good in the world, but we are raising individuals who forge their own way in life.  Recognizing that there is no guarantee your hypothetical son would end up just like your husband is one thing that could help.  Life isn't a linear line.  I understand what you are saying but please get that first mindset out of your head and recognize that there are people out there who make bad choices and it's not the fault of their parents.  And there are people who turn out to be wonderful citizens and make positive change, despite their parents.

Similarly, whether a person grows up to be close to a parent is totally dependent on the individual and that particular relationship.  There is no reason to think that you will have a strained relationship as an adult with your daughters, just because you have one with your mom!  You are not your mom.
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