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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whoever is pregnant with the child gets to decide if there is a disagreement on this.[/quote] There's no disagreement, I'm talking about one knowing and the other not, both parents are fine with the arrangement. Question is more about ability to keep a secret.[/quote] There is no way this will be kept a secret the entire pregnancy.[/quote] I kind of agree, unless you don't talk at all about the pregnancy. I don't see how it wouldn't either come out or make everything really strange. Imagine setting up a registry and you're picking out gender neutral stuff and watching your spouse like a hawk to see what kind of clothes they're looking at in Buy Buy Baby. Even picking names - if you're the person who doesn't know, you're totally getting played when your spouse tells you that they don't really like your girl's name but they can deal with it, and then insists on their boy's name for fairness. They know there's a penis in there![/quote]
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