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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It's not an ideal response, OP, but you are being too judgmental for your own good. I understand. I can be very judgmental about grammar, spelling, and being a good correspondent.

That said, many very good men are not good at the initial dating phase. In my experience, beware the charming man who is very good at the initial approach.

This guy may or may not be for you. It is unlikely to serve you well to be so drastic as to say that someone who responded to your specific questions should not be on a dating app.

Calm down.[/quote]

My point isn’t just this one guy, it is a pattern. I did a little poll and I am not the only one that experiences this (polled straight males, gay males and straight women). If you can’t carry a conversation on an app (or at least make an effort), I have zero faith you can handle a conversation in person. I am not someone who expects weeks of texting or phone calls before meeting. If I am not feeling someone after a match and they message me, I literally do not respond.

And this may be harsh, but I just delete these guys now. I have experienced this enough to know it does not turn into anything or their personalities suck in person.

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