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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you have to decide whether you are just going to completely stop giving her money or whether you are going to continue giving her money. If you don’t want to give her any more money, then you will have to tell her very very bluntly and firmly, not engage in any discussions, and repeat that message over and over. It’s nice that she adopted you but that does not mean you are a hostage to her bad decisions for the rest of your life, and you should absolutely feel free to tell her that. And you can tell her that her emotional blackmail is not something a good or a loving parent would do. If you do decide you are going to keep giving her money, you might like to just give a modest allowance every month and let her know that there is absolutely no more than that coming her way ever, no matter what the circumstances. And then you can decide if you want [/quote]
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