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[quote=Anonymous]I think it depends on when guys first start to put on a lot of weight and if they ever lose it.  I noticed in grad school that about 1/3 of the guys were severely doughy and soft.  Probably drank way too hard in college and then once they entered law firms they had no time to exercise or eat well.  I would say that a lot of guys in my office who have young kids at home seem to be this way (most are in the early to mid 30s).  That's also when some of them start to lose quite a bit of hair and you can start to see bald spots. I would say these are the guys who don't have great stamina.  The ones who are still fit and eat and work out are probably fine at this point.

Some of my older guys friends admitted that they experienced a drop in drive in their 40s.  One of my closest friends is my age (in his 40s) but has high blood pressure and carries about 15 extra pounds.  Plus he's never really exercised ever his entire adult life other than just walking places.

An attractive divorced friend of mine (she's early 40s) told me that the guys she's dated in their early to mid 50s all seem to have trouble maintaining  hardness.  I think this is incentive not to dump my spouse.  He's a bit of a unicorn.  He's tall and lean and has trouble gaining weight (it's his dad's side of the family).  In the 15 years or so since I've know him there's been no noticeable drop in hardness.  I will probably kick myself as we get into our 50s and things start to decline however, b/c i'm not taking advantage of it.  My reluctance is due to the huge amount of resentment that's built up due to his not taking care of things around the house (but I digress).

So I would say, most guys start to experience drops in testosterone etc. in their 40s and definitely into their 50s.  But the ones who don't eat well, drink heavily and have a bad lifestyle/genetics may start to experience that drop a lot sooner.[/quote]

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