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[quote=Anonymous]I just got back from a multigenerational vacation with my parents, my sister and her kids, and I also vacationed with my sister and her kids a few weeks ago and she just ruined both trips for everyone with her behavior and I am so depressed with the person she’s become.  she drinks heavily and is a loud, messy drunk.  When she isn’t drinking, she’s still super loud, cursing, screaming at her kids for anything and everything no matter where we are (the pool, the beach, a casual restaurant, a fine dining restaurant, the lobby of a hotel, outside, everywhere).  She yells at my parents, demands they pay for stuff.   She is so cheap to the point it’s manipulative. Mommy mother, my children and I basically take over caring for her children on both trips because otherwise they’d be crying nonstop from being spanked and yelled out and wouldn’t have a normal childhood for a few days.  Basically my sister now acts like she would be a great guest on Dr Phil or Maury.  She’s 40.

My father is just beside himself with how my sister has turned out.  My mother cries about it when she’s alone with me. I am really fed up with my sister milking my parents for so much childcare and money, for embarrassing us everywhere we go, and just being awful.  Her poor kids.  I am just so sad with the realization that this is how she is and probably won’t change.

Anyway I guess my question is has anyone else had a sibling turn out so differently, especially with a huge drinking problem?   How did you deal?  Did you even do anything.  For now I am focusing on my own children and their needs but even they have said they never want to go on a trip with my sister again.  [/quote]

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