Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Childcare other than Daycare and Preschool
Reply to "Sad about former nanny"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]See, that's the thing. People go on about how you can have it all, but the reality is far from it. That is why the debate about WOH or SAH parents is never ending. To have your child raised exactly how you want it, you really need to stay home. Even if you have the best nanny/day care parents are constantly complaining about it. How do you get over comparing? You settle, this is good enough. Just like any SAHP has to settle if she/he have no time for reading the story today, or going to the park, or if they have to drag the younger or the older child to doctors all day long if their siblings is sick. For some people benefits of working outweigh the negatives of not being the non stop caregiver to their child, maybe money is awesome, maybe without it you would be homeless, etc... For some people option of SAH is great for other benefits, so you settle. We all do, no matter what your daycare and parenting and financial situation is.[/quote] +1 The only ppl who can control it all until age 18 are homeschooling SAHPs of only children. :) And some of those kids go wild at age 18.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics