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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So, either Dad gets kid on the weekday or you have a court battle and take away visitation and custody.  What are your options?  You give him a few days a week and be decent about it.  You need him to work for child support.[/quote]

I don’t need the CS. It is very, very low and paid inconsistently. I accept it only because the state doesn’t allow it to be waived and uses a preset formula.

I do need happy DC and my ex to not be homeless or angry. TBH, I’d be lucky to have every weekend with DC, but have trepidation about the impact on school.[/quote]

Give him two nights a week - Sunday and another night or what ever and be done with it.  You send food and what he needs to dad's house.  Its almost the end of the school year so what would it look like in the summer?[/quote]

That would be doable, but he says he cannot do Sun nights. He would be released in the late evening, have to travel from the jail to his home in another county, drive his car to pick up his pets from boarding, etc. and won’t be settled until around 10 PM. He says 4 school nights is the equivalent of EOW since his time would be interrupted by school and work. This seems inequitable. Which is why I asked what no weekends looked like for other parents.

The summer is less of an issue, except his inability to travel out of state for camp pickup or drop off.[/quote]

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