Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
General Parenting Discussion
Reply to "What does your partner do?"
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]DH: runs laundry, cooks on weekdays, trash/recycling, pays bills, schedules house and garden maintenance, dishes (both of us but mostly him), most drip-offs and pick ups, orders house supplies, texts with caregivers & cleaning lady, dr & dentist appointments, some driving for extracurriculars Me: fold and put away laundry, grocery shopping, cook on weekends, clothes, shoes, coats and any child-related equipment, books & toys, research child health and development, hire caregivers, research schools, research home repair options, weekend planning, travel planning, house organization, tidying, cards/gifts for teachers, birthdays, holidays, most driving for extracurriculars I think this division is mostly because 1) we both work and 2) our kids are young so I have spent a lot of the last years either TTC, pregnant, or breastfeeding. But I think it works pretty well for us because he is more of a routine task person who hates research and shopping and while I don’t love those things, I don’t mind them. He also doesn’t have many ideas about things like how to wean to a cup, how to potty train, how to teach reading whereas I’ve been responsible for those details. Maybe this will shift when we are out of the 0-5 rapid developmental change phase. [/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics