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[quote=Anonymous][quote=ZachF]As I posted in another thread.  When I suspected her and finally knew for sure she was lying to me, I confronted her.  More than once I gave her the chance to tell the truth while she doubled down on the lies.  I told her what I knew and she just made up ever more preposterous stories that would insult anyone's intelligence.

So yeah, I spied in her and it was so easy, I didn't require any special software or devices.  I told her exactly what I knew with exact times and dates, and when she finally asked me how I knew, I told her.  Incredibly, she still chose to lie, or change her previous stories to minimize the truth and everything else she could do to: Deny, Deny, Deny.

I don't care what anyone thinks about it.  I'm not some stalkerish guy who need to keep tabs on a woman.  Far from it.  And while I'll agree that people are entitled to their privacy, you give up that privacy in a relationship when you lie and I'm forced to provide you with absolute facts you can't dispute.

It was that or just accept her lies.  I did that for a long time when I believed and trusted her, against my better judgement.  Against all common sense.  Faced with the same situation, I'll do it again but I have learned to trust my gut.  My gut was correct every time I chose to ignore it.[/quote]

How was the divorce?[/quote]

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