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[quote=Anonymous]You're not unreasonable, but there's only so much you can do, right? He sounds unreliable, and you're not going to change that by being reasonable (you couldn't do that while you were married, I'm sure ...) What I would do is not wait for him. Just inform him of the weeks that you have vacation plans, and wait for him to decide. If he picks a week that doesn't work, that's on him. If you and your kids have variable commitments that could crop up (sports, etc) keep him informed. Let him know ahead of time that if he picks a week on short notice that doesn't work, it's on him to reschedule. If/when the kids are big enough to travel to him, I'd just inform him (not ask): "The kids will spend Spring Break with you from April 10-April 17." Again, on him if he doesn't then adjust his schedule. [/quote]
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